Tuesday, October 6, 2026

Conformity

 


Questions: 

1. At times, the future seems hopeless for Gilbert Grape. Explain.

2. What is eating Gilbert? Explain.

3. Why does Arnie Grape love to climb the water tower?

4. The film is set in Iowa. How is this important to the development of the plot?

5. How does the youngest daughter, Ellen Grape, feel about the family?



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Conformity: a feeling that you don’t want other people to see you as different. You want to be just the same as those around you. You do not want to be seen or laughed at.

Asia: conformity is valued. We call this a collective society. People want to be part of a group. The value is important in small town middle America as well.

John Stuart Mill wrote a famous book in 1859 called On Liberty. He has the idea of “mob rule.” You are controlled by the society you are in and not allowed to be out of it.

“Man is born free but everywhere in chains.”

The director is from Denmark, so he is brainwashed in a different way than Americans. Americans will naturally tell you they are free and they believe it,

The irony is they thought Arnie couldn’t live until 18. But the mother was actually the one holding.

They used to film 21 Jump Street, the TV show that made Johnny Depp famous, at my university when I was student.

 

The workers used to love when he would go into restaurant in Vancouver because he left big tips.

He came from a poor, single mom family. His mother was a waitress in real life.

We have five senses.

See, hear, smell, taste and touch.

The sixth sense is intuition, a weird feeling we get sometimes.

The movie is from horror genre. It is scary.

The director is a first generation American. His parents are from India. Taiwan has four great directors. They are all first generation Taiwanese people. Why is this important? First generation people have to think about identity more. They always know they are a little strange from their classmates. Their parents are different, often don’t speak the language well, etc.

The movie is filmed in Philadelphia. The director grew up there. He said his parents immigrated to this city because it is the most historical in the US

Also, it has Christian themes. One of the opening shots is a bird’s eye view. I think he does that because God is looking down.